If you dumped girlfriend and you want her back, then you’re going to have to move fast but not so fast that you make the classic mistakes that guys make when they’re trying desperately to get back with their exs. Read the rest of this entry

Couples counseling is often a last resort for couples on the brink of the divorce.  But some couples try counseling early on when the first problems rear their heads. Counseling is certainly something that a couple shouldn’t be afraid to try, even if the problems are relatively minor.  Often, catching small problems early with counseling can prevent bigger problems down the road.  Early counseling can even something prevent a future divorce. Read the rest of this entry

Sometimes moving on (break up, loss or other major change) is difficult.  It’s rarely easy unless you’re so glad to get out of a situation that you can’t wait to make changes and move on.  A break up disrupts your whole life.  Everything you do and see seems to remind you of your ex.  If you had many mutual friends, even going out to keep from going stir crazy can be difficult.  Read the rest of this entry

You are probably wondering why some people end up in unhealthy relationships. Why would anyone want to be with someone who makes them feel emotionally or physically harmed?

A unhealthy relationship has a cycle.  There’s a honeymoon period, followed by a blow up, followed by a reconciliation – at which point the cycle begins anew. Read the rest of this entry

If you truly want to get back with your ex and  you wonder ”Can we get back together”, you have to do a bit of soul searching. You must be totally honest with yourself.  You have to decide if you and your ex get back together it will truly make you happy, and you won’t wind up down the same road that caused the breakup in the first place.  It’s always easy after a breakup to only think of the good times.  It’s important that you try to be completely objective and think of both the good and bad times.  Read the rest of this entry

Whether he cheated on you or you made a fool out of him, dealing with a bad breakup is always a challenge. Oftentimes, the main cause of a bad breakup is a lot of misunderstandings derived from unaired sentiments and faulty secrets. As women, breakups always spell a long weekend of crying, sulking and being depressed. For some who have weaker hearts, the grief process can take even more than year. Regardless of the time spent in depression, there is always a way to keep your chin up and start telling yourself that it’s time to move on. Read the rest of this entry